Have you ever thought that why you are born as a human being, according to hindu mythology you are born as human being after 36 corers of animal or insects birth.
Is it god who decides what you will be …an animal, a insect or a human being. If god is someone who decides our destiny, then why is he not impartial? Why everyone is not equally beautiful? Why not everybody getting equal food? Why are innocent children dying of hunger? Does it mean that god loves some selected people and he wants to punish some bad people? If god decides our destiny then everybody should be happy and prosperous, because we know that he loves us equally.
Destiny is something your actions (KARMA) decides for you. If you say that what you are today is because of your destiny, you are absolutely wrong. Where you stand today is because of your actions (KARMA) of past, and what you are doing today will decide your future. Be it anything your money, relationships, your career, health everything will be decided by your own actions of today. You cannot escape your actions (KARMA), because once you have acted the reaction will follow you. You may escape the effect of your action up to a limited time period but you will face it one day what you call the destiny.
Your destiny is basically an overall result of your interactions with your surroundings,( your surroundings consists of both living and non-living things). When things go wrong in our life or when you start asking……… “ GOD WHY ONLY ME?”, when inspite of all kind of reasoning’s we don’t find the answers to our problems, we blame only one person…”THE POOR GOD or THE DESTINY”.
Many a times we say it happened to me because it was in my destiny. We blame the destiny and the god for our failures in career, relationships and bad health. We never tried to analyze why this happened to me, we never question ourselves, we never question our actions. It is the tendency of the brain to rest in peace, we never try to analyze our actions and frequently blame others and when we don’t find anyone to blame we blame god and his destiny.
I will give a very good example of one of my friend who refused to marry his girlfriend of 3 years, giving a reason that their relationship was not destined to culminate in a marriage. My question is why the hell are you born with that 5 kgs of head on your shoulders if god /destiny has to decide everything.
I would rather say that “NEWTONS 3rd LAW “ if modified is nothing but “GOD/DESTINY”. …………………………………….”EVERY ACTION HAS EQUAL AND SIMILAR REACTION”. If you love and spread brotherhood you will be loved, if you hate and creat imbalance in your surroundings you will face the result, which you will blame to destiny.
So let us not blame god or destiny for any of our failure or problem we face in terms of relationships , wealth or health. We are solely responsible for what we are today & what we will be tomorrow. We should face every problem & difficulty with a positive attitude and courage. Let us live this precious life with a lot of “POSITIVE ENERGY”, because when you think positively the positivity spreads to your surroundings and will make this earth a better place to live.
